This poem has kept my mind straight and kept me on track through a lot of loss and change in life….
After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of the child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans
And futures have a way of falling down in mid flight.
After a while you learn…
That even sunshine burns if you get too much.
So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth…
And you learn and you learn…
With every goodbye you learn.